{"id":1147,"date":"2019-01-21T15:10:10","date_gmt":"2019-01-21T15:10:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/?p=1147"},"modified":"2020-07-03T01:24:42","modified_gmt":"2020-07-03T00:24:42","slug":"stigmata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/2019\/01\/21\/stigmata\/","title":{"rendered":"Stigmata"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/~totl\/skywritings\/uploads\/jude.serendipityThumb.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"96\" height=\"110\" align=\"right\" border=\"0\" hspace=\"5\" \/>No, the fear and ambivalence of Hungarian Jewry was <a href=\"http:\/\/hungarianfreepress.com\/2017\/04\/18\/keep-quiet-a-review-of-a-poignant-documentary-on-csanad-szegedi\/\">not because of 50 years of communism<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>My parents left in 1948, when I was three.<br \/>\nI had been baptized in Budapest,<br \/>\nand I didn\u2019t learn that I was jewish till I was nine,<br \/>\nin Montreal.<br \/>\nOther jews of Hungarian origin in Canada did not learn till they were adults<br \/>\n\u2014 and some are still in denial to this day.<\/p>\n<p>Nor did it start with the Shoah.<\/p>\n<p>Bigotry, oppression and \u00a0pogroms had been ongoing for centuries.<\/p>\n<p>My father converted when he was 19, in 1919,<br \/>\nbecause of <i>numerus clausus<\/i>,<br \/>\nchanged his name from Hesslein to &#8220;Harnad,&#8221;<br \/>\nthen my <a href=\"http:\/\/192.168.62.113\/~totl\/skywritings\/index.php?\/archives\/90-Safe-Passage.html\">mother<\/a>&#8216;s from (J\u00fcdin) S\u00fcss to &#8220;Simoni&#8221;.<br \/>\n(Nor did it save them from having to go underground with a false identity in 1944.<br \/>\nAnd forty members of my family on both sides were <a href=\"http:\/\/192.168.62.113\/~totl\/skywritings\/index.php?\/archives\/91-Miert-engedtetek.html\">exterminated<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>No, the fear and ambivalence of Hungarian Jewry was not because of 50 years of communism.<\/p>\n<p>One lifetime in Hungary will do that for you,<br \/>\nor even just its aftermath.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Postscript:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many years ago, in the 1970s, when I lived in Princeton and my brother was visiting, we went to a Hungarian bookstore in nearby New Bunswick (NJ) where there has been <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/New_Brunswick,_New_Jersey#Hungarian_community\">a Hungarian emigr\u00e9 community since the early 1900s<\/a>). We shook hands with the owner, a Mr. Somodi, who immediately began to address us \u201cper du\u201d (tegez\u00e9s), delighted to hear that Hungarians who had emigrated at a young age so long ago (1949) still spoke Hungarian.<\/p>\n<p>(I remember that in browsing the books that was the first time I came across a book about the Scythian origins of Hungarian\u2026)<\/p>\n<p>Well, we got around to inquiring about Hungarian restaurants in New Brunswick \u201cbecause there are quite a few Hungarians living in Princeton.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He asked: \u201cReally? Who are these Hungarians?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I cited, as an example, <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Eugene_Wigner\">Eugene Wigner<\/a> (Wigner Jen\u0151, a Nobel laureate).<\/p>\n<p>I can still remember Somodi\u2019s words, from 40 years ago (no need to translate them into English):<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWigner? H\u00e1t az nem Magyar, az Zsid\u00f3!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>(Enlightened, by inference, about our likely ethnicity, I think he suspended the \u201cper du,\u201d and we suspended our browsing\u2026)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, the fear and ambivalence of Hungarian Jewry was not because of 50 years of communism. My parents left in 1948, when I was three. I had been baptized in Budapest, and I didn\u2019t learn that I was jewish till I was nine, in Montreal. Other jews of Hungarian origin in Canada did not learn &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/2019\/01\/21\/stigmata\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Stigmata&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3074,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1147","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1147","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3074"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1147"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1147\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1421,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1147\/revisions\/1421"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1147"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1147"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/generic.wordpress.soton.ac.uk\/skywritings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1147"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}